This will give you a good idea of where I’m at beIng single at 53. It’s a trip for sure.
Do you think you will fall in love again?
Do you have the energy to start a love relationship and keep it going?
Do you still get sparks/attracted to someone or do you dismiss it right away?
Do you feel like you could live with someone 24 x 7?
After living alone so long, could you put up with someone around having to talk to, plan things with, accept things that annoy you,…
How would it work dealing with their family?
Do you worry about growing old and alone and not having memories shared with someone?
Are we alone if we live by ourself but have many friends?
Do you crave a hug, your cheek kissed, …?
When was the last time you were intimate? Was it awkward? Were you scared?
Is it different when we don’t feel as attractive now compared to when were younger and more attractive?
Could you trust again?
Would you be walking on egg shells waiting for something to go wrong?
Would it end up being like many couples at restaurants sitting across from each other not talking?
What’s the worse thing that could happen if you tried to find love?
What’s the worst thing that could happen if you don’t try?
It seems to me all this was much easier when we were young. What are your thoughts?
Sending good vibes to you all,