Embrace your “Patina”

Patina (/pəˈtiːnə/ or /ˈpætɪnə/) is a thin layer that variously forms on the surface of copperbrassbronze and similar metals and metal alloys (tarnish produced by oxidation or other chemical processes) or certain stones[1]and wooden furniture (sheen produced by age, wear, and polishing), or any similar acquired change of a surface through age and exposure.

The word patina comes from the Italian patina (shallow layer of deposit on a surface), derived from the Latin patĭna (pan, shallow dish). Figuratively, patina can refer to any fading, darkening, or other signs of age, which are felt to be natural or unavoidable (or both).

– Wikipedia

Twice a year I have a therapy session with my 1992 Jeep Cherokee. Once in the fall and once in the spring. I wash and wax the car and do a full detail trying to maintain it for many years to come. I call it therapy, because afterwards we’ve worked out all of our shit that’s piled up and our refreshed and ready to roll down the road some more.

Patina seemed like the best way to describe the natural part of getting older and wiser for me. Instead of trying to cover it up, hide it, or running away from it many us of actually can look at it as a work of art. Inside and Out.

I think I’ve mentioned this before, but as I get older I appreciate old things. My dad was the same way. Something about not giving up on things and just disposing of them. There’s so much character and potential just waiting to be discovered again. This is my only vehicle besides the van I’m building out. I drive it daily and it sits out in the elements 24 x 7. I don’t treat it like a trophy, but I’m damn appreciative of all the joy it brings me. It’s been paid off for years and has treated me very well.

Often with patina, comes a bit of rust. It’s okay. It’s natural.

Each year new pings, scratches, pealing, and fading will appear. Each can teach you something new.

It’s not only the outside that ages …

Stains appear where never before. Some caused by other folks. Some caused by you. Each one a lesson or if nothing else a laugh.

Rips will appear where we we’ve jump in and out the most.

It doesn’t mean though we can’t maintain what we have. It just takes a bit of work. You might just have to get down in the dirt and start scrubbing.

Cracks can appear out of nowhere … just like that. Nothing you can do about it when it’s a daily driver. Sure you could replace them, but as you get older things no longer need to be perfect.

Stand back a bit and appreciate where you’re currently at. You can still shine and in my opinion that old sheen is priceless. No money can purchase this.

“Let us prepare our minds as if we’d come to the very end of life. Let us postpone nothing. Let us balance life’s books each day. The one who puts the finishing touches on their life each day is never short of time.”

Seneca

EMBRACE YOUR PATINA! IT’S YOUR LIFE’S GOLD.

Don’t worry I have plenty of fuel left in my tank,

Dwight

14 responses to “Embrace your “Patina””

  1. Beautifully said ❤

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    1. Thanks Pam. Takes a lot of learning the interesting way. I’m out on a 3 week adventure in my camper van with my dog Alice. Heading out east to see sites as we go and visit family. Just reminded me of your Alaska adventures😊❤️

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        Pam Waugh Miller

        We both love adventures and I love to read about yours now as I sit on the couch working. I admire what you are doing and I hope you have an amazing time with Alice and your camper van – HOW FUN!!

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        Pam Waugh Miller

        I can’t wait to hear more about your camper van adventures with Alice! Thanks for doing this blog so we can all live vicariously though you right now. 🙂

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  2. Wise words, Dwight. It surely feels as though you are describing the changes of my aging body. 🙂

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  3. I love this notion of the “patina” of aging. What a lovely metaphor. Also, your Cherokee is looking spiffy!

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  4. i’m totally jealous! i cant seem to keep a car longer than 5 years! Seems like as soon as i get close to paying one off, something happens that will cost way more than it’s worth fixing. I drive an hour each way to work 5-7 nights a week, year round so i need something dependable even in bad weather. Plus i am terrible at surface upkeep ( although very OCD about maintenance). ….

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    1. It’s my daily driver but I definitely don’t drive as much as you. I work out of my house so some days it never leaves the driveway. Curious…do you listen to books or podcasts when you commute? Did you get in any fall hikes…would love to see the fall colors out there.😊

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      1. yes! i listen to audible books now..used to get cd books from the library but these newer cars have no cd player..i truly miss having one

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  5. I love this! I know I’ve mentioned it but my truck is newer, 2013. However, it has 232,000 miles on it and still keeps going strong. We have another vehicle for long trips which we do frequently but we are never getting rid of that truck until it really says “uncle.” I bought that specific truck because I had wanted one for years. I still drive it proudly even with all the rust. ( above the back tires it’s really bad ) I love the mean sound when I start it up. Thanks for the lovely reminder. 😊

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    1. There’s just something about those older vehicles isn’t there. Keep on trucking my friend😀

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  6. A very insightful post. I used to buy and sell motorcycles every 18 months or so. I would develop them to a point and get as good as I could for what was doing at the time, then move on to something else.
    These days (I’m 55 Yrs old), I tend to hold onto things and look after them, even though I have to do everything myself, because the local motorbike shop refuses to work on it because ‘it’s too old’

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    1. That’s so cool you have an older bike and keep it going! Right on😊

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