You don’t have to eat everything on your plate

You really don’t.

*Before I start in I realize these aren’t the most exciting blog entries on mindful eating, but it’s actually more for me to have a space to work through what I’m experiencing and maybe find others who practice this or are interested in checking it out.


Many of us grew up being told we needed to eat all the food on our plates. If you happened to have “big eyes,” you still had to finish it all—or no dessert.

“If you don’t eat yer meat, you can’t have any pudding. How can you have any pudding if you don’t eat yer meat?” – PF

Being told that if you’re good, you’ll get a treat doesn’t teach us to stop when we’re full. It just adds more bad emotions around food and our actions, sprinkled with regret.

I’m learning that I can leave food on my plate and have started practicing it this week. In the past, once it was on my plate in front of me, it was going down! For a couple of days now, I’ve stopped eating once I was full and put the leftover food into Tupperware. Leftovers are great.

Thursday is my breakfast club day with the guys, and I’m already preparing to ask for a to-go box. It’s your typical American breakfast joint with huge servings. I learned when I got sober to look ahead and have a plan.


Mindful Eating Day 5

Peace,

Dwight🦋

7 responses to “You don’t have to eat everything on your plate”

  1. I’m loving reading these blogs! I appreciate you sharing these thoughts with us. I remember telling my kids to clean their plates (they also remember 🙄). I don’t remember it ever being a thing with my parents.

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    1. It’s very interesting. Such a basic different approach from the other things I’ve tried. Thanks

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  2. I remember my mom always saying we had to eat everything on our plates, couldn’t even leave the table until we did. Sometimes we would take more than we thought we could actually eat. I get they come from a background where food was scarce at times but I totally could have put it in a Tupperware dish and ate it for lunch the next day. The whole idea she was driving for was to not waste food, but that didn’t have to mean consuming it all at one time.

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    1. It was the same for us. Definitely interesting how that played out. I think teaching smaller portions would be better and if you’re still hungry afterwards get more.

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  3. You have brought up some very relevant points about how we are taught to over eat as a child, keep writing stuff, it’s all good.

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